Help and Strategies

5 Indicators of an Evil and Wicked Heart

by Leslie Vernick   Association of Biblical Counselors) As Christian counselors, pastors and people helpers we often have a hard time discerning between an evil heart and an ordinary sinner who messes up, who isn’t perfect, and full of weakness and sin. I think one of the reasons we don’t “see” evil is because we

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Bullying vs Mobbing?

Is it Bullying or Mobbing?[ii] Bullying and mobbing are different. Both involve aggressive and hostile behaviours directed towards a ‘target’. Church bullying happens in relational situations between one or a few bullies and a victim.  Bullies are aggressive in the way they deal with others. These behaviours can include repeated harassing or ‘pushy’ behaviour, offending

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RECOVERY

Recovery from mobbing can be slow and complicated. Anyone who has not experienced mobbing may find it difficult to understand and empathize with victims of mobbing. Mobbing is not acute trauma like being in a car accident or witnessing a shooting. It is chronic trauma that occurs over a period of time involving personal attacks

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Characteristics of Bullies

This list of characteristics of bullies is not exhaustive however it does include the most common characteristics. Please don’t be alarmed if you notice that you or a good friend have some of these characteristics. We can have one or two of the characteristics and not be a bully. The more characteristics the person exhibits,

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Impact of Bullying (Mobbing)

The impact of Mobbing (bullying) is comprised of many losses. Loss can affect health, work relationships, family stability, personal and professional identity, income and finances, job, career, professional reputation and ability to find work. It can play havoc with your confidence, belief in fairness and justice and your sense of security about the future. Victims

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